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Friday, November 16, 2012

When dreams remained as dreams itself. . . but why?

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The feeling of love is so sweet that we create an entire world itself inside our mind and we used to often dream about living in it with just our soul-mate always. A sweet way of living in the virtual world itself. Its this wonderful feeling that pave the way for building their future and forms the very base of a strong relationship. But fate can be cruel sometimes in shattering this beautiful dreams down just like a tower made of play cards and the impact it gives to the very life of us can not be put in to words. Yeah, just like the intensity of love in a relationship is so deep, the pain also which we experience when a relationship faces a situation is unbearable.




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Every love relation starts with a promise made forever that, no matter what situation comes they will never part. But its too painful that broken promises are more as times passes and interestingly the very persons who were so close to such a level that they cant live even with out talking for an hour tends to change to such a situation that they wont even bother to care for each other and manage to live even without talking for days. It may sound ironic but its truth that the very relation which was made of trust and belief tends to get loosen by lack of commitment in time and also gets packed with a series of comforted lies. Yeah, we know that peoples tends to change in time, but the most beautiful part of being in a true relationship itself is that they never seems to change. But what can we do if the fate itself had other plans for them?



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A relationship at the verge of breakage is the most painful part of love life the lovers have to go through and i really wish like no lovers should have the fate to go through such a situation. This short period but also possess a magical power of bringing relationship closer again because as days passes each pair tends to realize what they are going to miss in their life. The infatuated mind which was filled by other thoughts of wealth, society status, career etc tends to disappear and he/she will shockingly realize the fact that the very person to whom they have even dedicated their life itself is going to slip away forever from their life for reasons/situations which we have considered so important but it wasn't worth enough too. Its true that the value of an eye is not appreciated when we have it, but only after loosing it. But love is not something which we should bring it to this level to make both of the partners realize that how much they depend on each other. The unique bond which exist between two soul-mates are invisible for others eyes but its strong enough to bring them closer no matter what situation come in time. 


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The most painful part of a breakup is when one partner decide to move on leaving the other behind for reasons unclear for both of them and the other started feeling so alone left behind without any help. The one moving on would have reasons of their own and will be heading for a destination where people are waiting for them, while the one left behind have only a bunch of memories to hold on and feel forever all alone. The situation can be worse if the reason for breakup itself remains unknown. It can happen in a lot of relationship these days as each partner will have their own reason to define for acting that way and also there can be situations like one of the partner feels guilty of something they have done in past and feels like their current relationship cant be a perfect one because of the guiltiness feeling inside. But by doing so and moving away from a relationship what they are doing actually is that, not only they are leaving behind their trusted partner but they are actually spoiling their own life itself . Its told like a decision should never be taken in a confused situation, but the beauty and trust of a true relation implies the fact that no matter how confused they got in time, the feeling for partners and their mutual bond of love should never gets affected; which means a question of whether we should need this relationship or not should never arise.


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But in the modern age, its sad that decisions like these are controlled and over powered by the way a person is guided in that particular situation. If the very person involved have a confused state of mind, then things can become more complex and even a firm decision cant be taken and all he/she can do is simple avail more time and hoping that time will bring a better solution for their problem, which is just a no hope way of taking life. Because its true that time can bring changes in person, but if time can bring changes in relations too then how far worthy is that relation? Because the person  who is ready to leave their partner behind and look for a new life just because of relying on time, then what guarantee is there  that in future that the same fate can struck again in the new life too? 








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All this happens just because of a simple mistake that, lovers are not looking in to each others love life like earlier; the way they have come, the way they have given birth to their love, the way they have cherished each and every moment of being together. . the sweet moments they have spend enjoying as husband and wife. . the lovely life they have started living together. .the beautiful way of even telling about how their small baby is going to be.  Cherishing these memories for few moments itself can bring their hearts so close to each other that they will realize how much they are loving each other. The problems which stood like mountain in front of them will slowly melt away because now they have openly found it out what their heart is wishing to hold on all through the life. Nothing seems to be of much important than it, at that time and no one seems to be able to create any more impact over them too, for the very reason that they have finally heard what their own heart is desiring for, than anything in this world. . . .the closeness of their Soul-mate!!

3 comments:

  1. Firstly.. I wanted to say before that thnks for introducing me to such a wonderful song. Love it to bits..

    And everything u said is very true.. People who have been through such stage could relate to it easily and I cud easily understand how does it feel :) :) keep writing buddy :)

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    1. Thanks prasoon for going through the post and really glad to know that you like the song very much. I hope by now you would have figure it out that its the track " Breathless" by Shayne Ward. Purely amazing lyrics and the soothing music right? :)
      Then about the post what you told it is right. People who have gone through this very stage of life can understand the real depth of pain they were holding inside that time. Lets wish that god will shower his blessing over the lovely couples going through hard times and make them happy again.
      Then thanks for the encouragement buddy. .take care. . :)

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